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DMM: Find Apartments for Rent the Easy Way

Posted By damien on April 26th, 2010

Big News!  In my other life, the one where I’m not a blogger, my wife and I found out we are moving to Santa Fe, New Mexico!  I have been assigned a position there with my “day job” as an Implementation Consultant.  It’s just a fancy name for someone who makes computer programs work for people.

Anyways, we have very little time to find an apartment, so I’ve spent much of the week looking for rentals online.  The good news is that there are tons of resources on the internet.  In just a few days, I have compiled a spreadsheet with information about 22 different apartment complexes.  I know I’m a nerd, but can’t help myself.

But think about that for a minute.

Without even stepping foot in Santa Fe, I have gathered information on 22 different complexes and narrowed the list down to the top five.  Now, when we do go looking for a place to live, we can (hopefully) spend one day touring these five locations and know what we want by the end of the day.

Without further delay, here are my top four favorite sites for finding apartments for rent online:

1) Apartments.com

This site, along with the next, seemed to have the most information about the complexes  listed.  Prices, square footage, community amenities and apartment amenities were listed.  Media was where they truly shined: large photos, floor-plans and 360° tours.  They allow you to make a profile and save favorites.  Excellent resource.

2) Rent.com

Another excellent resource, similar to apartments.com.  Prices, square footage, community amenities and apartment amenities were listed.  Unfortunately, I couldn’t find any 360° tours.  They also allow you to make a profile and save favorites. By the way, rent.com is owned by eBay.

3) ForRent.com

I really liked the amount of information this site gave me. Prices, square footage, community amenities and apartment amenities were listed. Photos, floor-plans and 360° tours were also available.  Their apartment comparison feature was very nice.

4) ApartmentGuide.com

Good resource, not as awesome as the first two.  Prices, square footage, community amenities and apartment amenities were listed.  Pictures and floorplans were shown, but were tiny compared to the first two sites.

There were several other websites I checked out, but these were the cream of the crop.  It’s a good idea to check more than one, since each site I used listed a few different complexes.

What resources have you used to find an apartment?

Help! Save Me from a NYC Shopping Spree!

Posted By damien on April 21st, 2010

New York City

To celebrate our joint graduation from college, my wife and I will travel to New York City next week.  As a recovering materialist, I need your help.

I’ll be surrounded by temptation.  Can I stay strong? Will you help me?  This video is my plea for assistance and my promise to you.

So, will you help me?  My promise is two-fold:

  1. To only buy 5 things while on my trip
  2. Every item I buy will replace one I already own

I’ll keep you posted on my progress by tweeting every purchase.  I need you to remind me of my goals and help me stay strong as I near my limit.

DMM: World Domination, Productivity Tips, and More

Posted By damien on April 5th, 2010

Digital Manna from Heaven

Welcome to Digital Manna Monday.  Here I share links to some of my favorite online happenings from the past week.  They could be news articles, blog posts or cool new services.

Whatever they may be, they’re all digital manna: online gifts of illumination and enlightenment.

1) A Brief Guide to World Domination

Chris Guillebeau is one of those bloggers I admire for his amazing writing, worthwhile products and anti-sleazeball approach to selling.  He has an awesome story to tell; his plan is to visit every country in the world while still in his 30s and he’s already been to well over 100.

His mind-expanding Brief Guide to World Domination is a kick-in-the-butt motivator to go out and do something with your life.  The best part is that it’s free!  Check it out, and while you’re there, subscribe to his blog.

2) Productive! Magazine

The name is self-explanatory.  Productive! Magazine is an online publication featuring interviews with productivity gurus and articles on getting things done.  The latest issue, volume four, features an interview with Leo Babauta, blogger extraordinaire of ZenHabits.org and leader of the minimalist/simple living movement.  Did I mention that the pdf version is free?!  Check it out.

3) HootSuite

This is my new favorite app for managing my social media accounts.  From this one place I can track twitter, facebook, and LinkedIn.  I used to use Tweetdeck, but three features made me switch to HootSuite.

First, and this is a big one, with HootSuite I can schedule tweets and facebook updates to be posted in the future.  Second, HootSuite displays twitter conversations as threads.  This means that when someone replies to me, my original message is displayed below, so I can quickly resume the conversation. Third, Hootsuite has built-in statistics.  I used to use bit.ly for url shortening and click tracking, but HootSuite has built in ow.ly shortening and tracking.

4) Why You Really Need a Logo

Mars is an up-and-coming blogger who writes about brand creation at MarsDorian.com.  He was kind enough to write this post about logo brainstorming and creation after I mentioned that mine sucked and needed lots of help.  His post explains why you need a logo and several tips for creating one that’s appealing and slick.  While you’re there, check out his logo, he knows what he’s talking about.

That’s it for this week.  Have any great links you would like me to share next time?  Shoot me an email at damien[at]bitesizeidea[dot]com

Man vs. Stuff: How I Win the Battle

Posted By damien on March 23rd, 2010
Guess shoes

image courtesy of Terri-Ann Hanlon

“Just buy them, they’re on sale!”

“But you don’t need them!”

The angel and devil on my shoulders were arguing again.  I was standing in the Mecca of Materialism, the shopping mall, eyeing some shiny new Guess brand shoes.  No matter I had 12 other pairs at home, these ones were calling to me.

After a brief struggle, Stuff won the battle and I walked out of the store carrying some shoes I didn’t need with money that wasn’t in the budget.

Where was my will power? Chalk another victory up to Stuff.  It seemed that in the war of Man vs. Stuff, I was getting owned, annihilated!  Why did I have to keep buying things when I already had more than enough?

Somehow, along the road of life, I had convinced myself that stuff made me happy.  I thought that things gave me fulfillment.

I was wrong.

If that were true, if stuff really did make me happy, then why did I rush back to the stores every weekend looking for new stuff?  Didn’t the stuff I bought the weekend before make me happy?  I guess not anymore.

For some reason, this equation of stuff = happiness just wasn’t working out.  What was I really looking for?  What would truly make me happy for the long term?

Living, Instead of Merely Consuming

It turns out that what I was really looking for was “self-actualization” as Maslow calls it in his hierarchy of needs.  To be truly happy, I needed to create, to contribute, to make a difference.

This is how I win the war of Me vs. Stuff.  Through creative outlets such as writing and web design, I express myself and find contentment.  I am able to achieve a state of flow, where time flies by unwatched and I become absorbed in the work.

Stuff is important.  We need Stuff to eat, wear, and shelter us.  But we need more than stuff to make us happy.  We need to create, contribute, and express ourselves.

How do you win the war against stuff?

5 Life Lessons I Learned from Yoga

Posted By damien on March 18th, 2010
Warrior II Pose

image courtesy of a4gpa. Taken on Mt. Timpanogos, Utah

I realize that after a string of personal finance and investing posts, to have one about the benefits of yoga is quite a change! To some of you who come here for advice about investing, this post may seem a bit new-agey, a bit fluffy.  But my commitment is to bring you big ideas in bite size portions, no matter the source.

In the few years I have been practicing, yoga has improved my life in ways I doubt I could find anywhere else.  Now that my wife does it too, yoga is something we enjoy together that enriches our relationship.  Here I will show you five lessons (there are probably more) that yoga has taught me about life in general.

Breathe

In yoga, the breath is the measurement of every action.  Movement follows the breath’s pace.  Time is not counted in the artificial constructs of minutes and hours, but in the natural, organic breath.  Most yogis discourage having clocks in the studio, allowing the yoga session to advance naturally.

Besides breathing exercises to help calm or energize, yoga’s focus on the breath has taught me to pay more attention to the rhythms and cycles of my body, rather than the dictates of the clock.  Your body will tell you what you need better than the clock or other artificial measures we tell ourselves (or society tells us) to follow.

Exist in the Now

One of my favorite yoga poses, Warrior 2, has the practitioner spread their arms wide with the hands pointing in front of and behind them.  This pose is meant to symbolize the practitioner’s existence in the now.  The hand pointing behind is our reminder of the past, where we have come from.  The hand in front points us to the future, to what we will do and become.

And we are in the middle, in the present, where we can act and use the past to chart out our futures.  Personally, I have a fixation on the future.  No matter where I am or what I’m doing,  if I do not consciously focus on what I’m engaged in, my mind drifts to what I’ll do next and what needs to be done after that (and after that, and on and on).

Yoga taught me this lesson that is now a popular saying:

You pile up enough tomorrows, and you’ll find you’ve collected a lot of empty yesterdays.

Simplicity is Key

How much equipment do you need to practice yoga?  Only two things: your body and your mat.  By stripping away the extraneous stuff, yoga practitioners focus on the essential.

Emerson said, “Things are in the saddle and ride mankind.”  Try ridding yourself of some of your excess stuff and magically see how much more you can focus on the essentials: relationships, health, and faith.

Be Aware

Removing all distractions, yoga forces you to focus on your body.  The breath, the movement of muscles, the strain of difficult poses.  It connects the mid to the body.

Like I said before, my natural tendency is to think about the future and neglect the present.  Yoga reminds me to direct my energy to what is happening now. What am I doing? What am I feeling? Who am I with? What are they feeling?  I can testify to the fact that being aware and engaged in the present leads to a richer life experience.

Let Go

One of the main focuses of yoga is flexibility of the body and mind.  In order to achieve the more difficult poses,  the mind has to let go of doubt and the muscles have to let go of strain.  The practice of actively telling one’s muscles to let go, to loosen up and live, has a parallel in what must be told to the mind and heart.

Some of the previous lessons tie into this one.  By focusing on the breath and body we let go of artificial measures.  By existing in the now, we let go of worry about the future. We let go of  our regret about or yearning for the past.

What Has Yoga Taught You About Life?

I am barely into my yoga journey, but already it has improved my physical, mental and emotional health.  What about you? Do you practice yoga? What has yoga taught you about life?

4 Ways to Stay Awake During Boring Meetings

Posted By damien on March 11th, 2010

Tired Man

Boring meetings can happen anywhere: work, school or even church.

I am only in my mid-twenties, but have sat through countless boring meetings. This post is a collection of methods I use to stay awake and moderately attentive when meetings get tedious.

Lift a Leg

I learned this one from the CEO of a venture capital firm who has seen more than his fair share of boring meetings. Whenever he gets sleepy, he lifts one of his feet an inch or so off the floor. This method really works! The attention required to keep your foot elevated fights off droopy eyelids and jaw-cracking yawns.

One note of caution:

It’s best to have a table or other object in front of you, otherwise it looks a bit strange to have your foot hovering in the air.

Chew on Something

Most of these suggestions involve some sort of movement and this one involves your mouth! Mints and gum are great things to put in your mouth to keep you awake. The chewing action and the cool minty flavor do wonders to keep your eyes open.

Another note of caution:

This method is recommended only if you have a passive listening role in the meeting. Many people consider chewing on something while speaking to be rude and unprofessional.

Get an Attention Buddy

When my wife gets bored, she fidgets. If I’m with her, she decides to bother me by flicking, pinching, poking or otherwise keeping me awake. I don’t think her purpose is to keep me awake, but it works that way! Find someone to be your attention buddy and keep each other awake during boring meetings.

The Yoga Breath of Fire

I’ve been practicing yoga for a few years now and love how it helps me reduce stress and relax. Yoga practitioners employ several breathing exercises to relax and/or energize the body. The breath of fire is one of the easiest breathing exercises for increasing energy and focus.

Basically, it is a rapid, constant breath that works the lungs and diaphragm. The breath of fire floods the body with oxygen, which keeps you alert during boring meetings. Follow this link to yogayoga.com (scroll down to the “breath of fire” section) for detailed instructions on the breath of fire technique.

How do you stay awake during boring meetings?

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